Keeping office dating a secret
I’m a very open person, and if there is something in my heart that I need to share with the world I always do.
However, being in college exposed me to the world of secret lovers, where for whatever reason some men hide the fact that they have a girlfriend.
Every month Elanor Kellie makes a very secret assignation.
It’s been going on for more than two years now and while the exact date and time vary, one thing never changes — the fact that her husband is totally in the dark.
This way, no one will feel awkward in the office if things don’t work out.
If you’re wondering why your man only takes you to the same two mediocre restaurants and never sprinkles any variety into the mix, there’s a reason.
I did feel a bit bad because obviously it is in the best interests of us as a family to have it in the offset account, but I just couldn’t face not having any money to call my own.
Of course, I will have to come clean now.’In decades past, wives would have expected their husbands to provide for them financially, but with women now used to earning at least as much as their partners, many find it hard to relinquish their financial equality.‘Having these savings means I know I have money should I, or we, ever need it in an emergency, and that gives me a sense of security and also enables me to treat myself every so often.
And both of you have similar fields of work which makes communication and compatibility so much easier to handle because both your interests and passions in life align along the same direction.
But as perfect as the scenario may seem, is it all pretty and rosy?